The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 12 letter word OVERCRITICAL
I've seen this crossword clue in The Daily Telegraph
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More clues leading to the result OVERCRITICAL
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The straight part
We know that "too judgmental" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case too judgmental = overcritical.The cryptic/wordplay part
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Crossword Answer definitions
OVERCRITICAL adjective- Excessively critical.