The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 5 plus 4 letter word DRESS CODE
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More clues leading to the result DRESS CODE
- Line up before Morse? It tells us what we should assume
- Add seasoning to fish – European, posh restaurant might insist on this
- What to wear to finish convention
- Acceptable habit?
- Set of rules for some who are buttoned up?
- Set of rules which may mean men are ‘tied’?
- In this German town, mostly doctors go around in black tie!
- Don Corleone started with a song — a matter of habit, perhaps
- Crossed blue denims and embroidered tops could be informal
- Possibly informal convention for grooming
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The straight part
We know that "posh restaurant might insist on this" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case posh restaurant might insist on this = dress code.The cryptic/wordplay part
In cryptic crossword there's often an wordplay/cryptic part as well.This part involves a more complex hint, such as an anagram, homophone, hidden word, etc.
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