The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 11 letter word ILL-STARRED
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More clues leading to the result ILL-STARRED
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The straight part
We know that "pathetic" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case pathetic = ill-starred.The cryptic/wordplay part
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Crossword Answer definitions
ILL-STARRED adjective- Doomed to a bad fate; hapless