The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 11 letter word CLOTH-EARED
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The straight part
We know that "not really listening" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case not really listening = cloth-eared.The cryptic/wordplay part
In cryptic crossword there's often an wordplay/cryptic part as well.This part involves a more complex hint, such as an anagram, homophone, hidden word, etc.
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What does CLOTH-EARED mean?
CLOTH-EARED adjective- Not hearing clearly.
- Failing to pay attention.