The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 14 letter word SELF-AWARENESS
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The straight part
We know that "Number-one cognitive quality" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case number-one cognitive quality = self-awareness.The cryptic/wordplay part
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Crossword Answer definitions
SELF-AWARENESS noun- The state or property of being self-aware; state of being aware of oneself as an individual.
- A personal trait regarding someone's ability to persistently and accurately perceive their presence amongst other people, their own knowledge and abilities; and subsequently, to recognize their limitations for those even which they're particularly confident with.