The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 6 plus 4 plus 4 letter word HOLIER THAN THOU
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The straight part
We know that "Patronising" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case patronising = holier than thou.The cryptic/wordplay part
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What does HOLIER THAN THOU mean?
HOLIER THAN THOU adjective- Hypocritically or self-righteously pious; sanctimonious.