The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 9 letter word OBTRUSIVE
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The straight part
We know that "Pushy" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case pushy = obtrusive.The cryptic/wordplay part
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What does OBTRUSIVE mean?
OBTRUSIVE adjective- Sticking out; protruding.
- Noticeable; prominent, especially in a displeasing way.
- Pushy.