The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 12 letter word EXASPERATING
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The straight part
We know that "a source of irritation" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case a source of irritation = exasperating.The cryptic/wordplay part
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What does EXASPERATING mean?
EXASPERATING verb- To tax the patience of, irk, frustrate, vex, provoke, annoy; to make angry.
- That exasperates, infuriates, annoys or irritates