The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 9 letter word DISHWATER
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The straight part
We know that "the epitome of dullness" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case the epitome of dullness = dishwater.The cryptic/wordplay part
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What does DISHWATER mean?
DISHWATER noun- Water that dishes and cooking utensils have been washed in.
- (by extension) Anything dull and lacking interest or flavour.