The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 9 letter word DOMESTICS
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The straight part
We know that "arguments/maids" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case arguments/maids = domestics.The cryptic/wordplay part
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What does DOMESTICS mean?
DOMESTICS noun- A house servant; a maid; a household worker.
- A domestic dispute, whether verbal or violent
- Articles manufactured within a country rather than being imported, especially home-made cotton cloths.