The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 10 letter word PARTICIPLE
I've seen this crossword clue in The Daily Telegraph
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Buddy explains!
The straight part
We know that "What could be going or gone as part of our language" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case what could be going or gone as part of our language = participle.The cryptic/wordplay part
In cryptic crossword there's often an wordplay/cryptic part as well.This part involves a more complex hint, such as an anagram, homophone, hidden word, etc.
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What does PARTICIPLE mean?
PARTICIPLE noun- (grammar) A form of a verb that may function as an adjective or noun. English has two types of participles: the present participle and the past participle. In other languages, there are others, such as future, perfect, and future perfect participles.