The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 8 letter word YAHRZEIT
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The straight part
We know that "anniversary of loss" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case anniversary of loss = yahrzeit.The cryptic/wordplay part
In cryptic crossword there's often an wordplay/cryptic part as well.This part involves a more complex hint, such as an anagram, homophone, hidden word, etc.
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What does YAHRZEIT mean?
YAHRZEIT noun- The anniversary of a person's death, usually a parent's, often marked by the lighting of a memorial candle and other rituals.