The most common and most likely answer to this crossword clue is the 4 plus 3 plus 4 plus 4 letter word GAVE THE GAME AWAY
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More clues leading to the result GAVE THE GAME AWAY
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The straight part
We know that " /how to throw a match?/ (4,3,4,4)" is the straight/definition part of the clue. The straight part is often a synonym or definition, in this case /how to throw a match?/ (4,3,4,4) = gave the game away.The cryptic/wordplay part
In cryptic crossword there's often an wordplay/cryptic part as well.This part involves a more complex hint, such as an anagram, homophone, hidden word, etc.
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